VSFS... and Guys

I love a good Fashion Show like anyone else and no I'm not one of those girls who boycotts the VSFS, I respect what they do, I think they are gorgeous, and I think it's entertaining.

What's more entertaining to me is everyone's reactions.

No I am not a size two, yes I know I have bigger hips, thighs and butt. I'm not blind. But I'm not about to beat myself up over it. I will never be a VS model so why should I compare myself to them. They could never be me either. There is about 1% of the WORLDS population that could be one of them, hence why they are from all over the world. I'm okay with that!

It's funny though reading people's tweets and FB status through the whole thing.

I love the girls who hate on themselves and swear to a diet right after.

I love the guys who tear down all the women around them by comparing them to these women.

But mostly, I LITERALLY love the guys who tweeted that we shouldn't want to be like them (not because they aren't beautiful) but because it is shallow of us to only want to be them BECAUSE they are good looking.

I respected that a lot.

All these other guys on Twitter and sitting there talking about girls with thunderthighs and how they should be working out instead of watching it. That made me angry. Way to contribute to most women's already low self-esteem.

And then I wonder, how are they going to treat their women. The guys who watch this and dis women for their appearances are shallow and will never be able to offer anything really deep to a relationship and for that I'm truly sorry to whoever they may be dating. What a wasted relationship checking your reflection constantly for imperfections instead of looking at what's beautiful about you.

These women are definitely beautiful. I am not here at all to hate on them. I love watching the VSFS, I think it is good entertainment.

I'm here to slap some sense into these females who always want to be someone else and look like something else. CONFIDENCE and self assurance is the sexiest thing I can think of for a person to wear.

And I'm here to slap some sense into the dudes who find it necessary to pick on everyone around them and belittle them. Learn to control your foolish comments because I'm afraid you may in turn affect the people around you that you say you care about.